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WAYS AFTER BREAK UP

It's always painful to recover from a breakup, more so if one was completely attached to it. It doesn't matter if you have a strong mentality or strong self love, breakups usually leave an empty space inside you. That space which was once filled with love and because of that you felt loved. But now that love is gone and doubt replaces it, it becomes your weak spot. Makes you scared of even the thought of being in a relationship. Some will shut off and some will use other means to cope. For instance one might find another partner right away, running away from their pain instead of facing it. After a painful breakup it's normal to build walls around your heart, it's normal to develop a defense mechanism to avoid getting hurt. The firmness of this defense depends on your choice of letting go or acceptance.  Although it takes time to lower your defenses and allow a new person to fill up the void. This way makes it safer for both parties and makes them really put their feeli...